Gay men have a unique view of the straight man’s world.
They know what makes a man attractive and they’re also guys, too.
Gay men also tend to form deeper friendships with straight women, so they get the inside scoop on what they really want from relationships.
According to a recent question posted on Reddit, gay men and straight women often want the same thing: a guy who’s emotionally available and reasonably well-dressed.
To help straight men with their relationships and life in-general, Reddit user OurOhnlyHope posed the question “Gay Men of Reddit, what advice do you have for Straight Men of Reddit?” on the online forum. Since it was first posted, the thread has received over 11,000 responses.
That’s a lot of advice, so here’s here’s 12 of our favorite gems.
- We can help you find Ms. Right.
As long as a gay friend isn’t crushing on you, we’re really good at helping you figure out if a girl is right for you or if you’re just blinded by pussy. We have a special ability with hot women called, “You have no power here!” and we find out very quickly which ones become hell to deal with if they can’t wrap you around their finger. Our opinion also isn’t shaded by female politics as a female friend’s can be.
I saw so many friends in college chase after girls that were completely wrong for them, just because of their looks. Gay men totally do the same thing when it comes to other men, so we can use your help as a filter as well.
(Reddit user BrobearBerbil)
2. It’s important to stretch.
Flexibility and stretching is really important for good blood flow. Improving this part of your life will definitely improve your mental capacities and give you more energy. A study has shown that women find men who stretch more attractive.
The best way to stretch is to use one hand to grab the other wrist and raise your arms above your head and stretch to the sky. Hold the stretch for 10-15s. Feel free to add a little sway to either side. The stretch is best accomplished when wearing a loose-fitting shirt that exposes the midriff during the stretch. As a matter of fact, it’s really best done shirtless and in a public setting, preferably ending the stretch with a few pelvic thrusts.
Just remember that if it doesn’t work to get your blood flowing…well, it will work for me. 😉
(Reddit user coldize)
9. Size isn’t that important.
I guess this is more… reassuring? But we hear a lot from your girlfriends. Like, a lot. If we’re close, she’ll tell us the whole story. And one thing I’ve learned from woman I know/hardly know/have literally met that night, it’s that dick size doesn’t matter. Most women and gays would much prefer a guy who knows what he’s doing than someone who just sits on his high horse because his dick’s above average. And yeah, there are size queens, but they aren’t important.
(Reddit user I tried to be nice)
10. Just stop.
stop wearing white oakley sunglasses with coloured lenses. just stop.
(Reddit user [deleted])
11. We’ve seen your nudes.
If you send nudes to a female who has a gay best friend, he’s seen your dick.
(Reddit user Thisguy2869)
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